No reputation is built on the basis of a single experience or the result of a solitary factor.
Reputation is a culmination of all the things you are good at done consistently well over an extended period of time. Once you have established what this is and what these things are then protect them and cherish them as valuable assets.
It is a fine line between achievement and failure.
Multitasking is fine provided you do not spread yourself too thinly.
Having many tasks in progress and not completing any of them will lead to frustration.
Make sure you continually review what you are doing and that they are achievable within the time frame you have set yourself.
Have a go at this, it will teach you to live more frugally, and although it is seen as a physical exercise, which is not a bad thing, it also teaches you ethical and spiritual values.
You will hear the word ‘mindfulness’ in the classes and this will teach you to appreciate the here and now.
Failure is always a possibility, what is more important is that you tried to succeed in the first place.
You know the difference between right and wrong. The issue therefore is that it is your choice what you do next knowing it is right or wrong.
Ask yourself why you would do something that you know to wrong know that further consequences will probably be painful. Why do what you will regret?
Do you trust your own instinct?
Have you ever tried to sell something to someone and thought that although they said the right things, this sale will backfire?
Have you ever met someone who seems OK but something is nagging you about their behaviour?
Have you ever gone along to a meeting and it has not turned out as you expected?
Don’t worry, these are all examples of you trying to make sense of the world.
Your instinct is a very powerful tool. It is a whole host of memories and analyses dragged up from the depths of your brain and based on the amount of time you have spent on this planet.
You may not be able to instantly recognise the problem, but your feeling of discomfort is driven by your subconscious mind telling you this is not right.
Learn to trust your instincts and don’t be persuaded otherwise. You may of course not be ‘right’, but most of the time you will be, as the definition of ‘right’ is purely your personal definition and hence driven by your instinct.
I would suggest there are some parts of your instinct that need curbing (that desire to throttle someone who is annoying you), but most of the time your instinct is trying to help you make sense of the world.
If you come across this here are a few tips:
Firstly, try and plan for these. Put some scenarios in when you pretend that a crisis has happened. Ffamiliarity will mean that the crisis is not so critical.
Form a team of people who can help you manage the crisis and have better experience.
Adopt a crisis mentality. Sometimes democratic processes may not work. Adopting a strong leadership approach works best. Be careful about the choice of leader.
Protect and preserve your core values, these will see you through the crisis.
Be prepared to change. The reason you are in a crisis is that you did not see it coming and you therefore did not change in time.
Dont let the crisis dominate your life. Try to continue as normal as possible in other non-critical areas. Keep a sense of perspective.
Finally, the crisis will pass. Analyse the results and learn from your mistakes.
This is purely personal and is down to you. Whatever you have chosen, you have gone through an acceptance or rejection process of looking at other options.
You have made your choice and now you must live with it.
Whatever you choose, give it as much energy, committment, passion and enthusiasm as you can. If you don’t feel that way then you have made the wrong choice.
Don’t spend your life in suspended animation because sooner or later someone will make that choice for you and you won’t like it.
Respect every person’s points of view, even if you don’t agree.
From this position you are much more likely to help someone if you respect them.
Arrogance will always undermine your thinking, so having a healthy respect for the other person’s point of view will ensure a balanced approach to decision making.
Respect underpins everything.
It is a lot easier to influence someone who respects you, and it is difficult to persuade others to do things if they don’t.
Don’t let the respect others have of you diminish, always behave according to your values and ethics.
Forget being an all-rounder, admit some stuff you cannot do and play to your strengths. You will be a better person for it and be thought better of.